Potty Training + Preschool: How to Work Together for Success

Potty training is one of those parenting milestones that’s equally exciting and daunting. For many families, this developmental leap coincides with another big step—starting preschool. If you’re wondering how these two milestones can successfully align, you’re not alone. At Storybook School Orlando, we work hand-in-hand with families to support children through this important transition. With teamwork, communication, and consistency, potty training and preschool can go hand-in-hand—and even enhance one another.
In this post, we’ll explore the connection between potty training and preschool, tips for making the process smoother, and how caregivers and educators can collaborate to support your child.
Why Preschool and Potty Training Often Overlap
The average age for potty training falls between 2 and 3 years old, which is also when many children begin preschool. Since children develop at different paces, it’s not uncommon for a child to start preschool before they’re fully potty trained—or to begin training shortly after starting school.
At Storybook School Orlando, we understand that potty training is a journey, not a one-day achievement. That’s why we meet each child where they are developmentally, offering gentle encouragement and consistent routines to support them every step of the way.
The Benefits of Potty Training in a Preschool Setting
While some parents worry that starting preschool before a child is fully potty trained might be a challenge, it can actually be an advantage. Here's how preschool supports potty training:
1. Routine and Structure
Preschool provides a consistent daily schedule. Having regular bathroom breaks at predictable times can reinforce the habit of using the toilet, which is key to successful training.
2. Positive Peer Influence
Children are observant and often motivated by what their peers are doing. Seeing classmates use the toilet independently can be a powerful motivator for those still in training.
3. Supportive Environment
Our trained teachers are patient, encouraging, and experienced in helping children navigate the potty training process. Whether it’s reminding them to try or celebrating a success, we’re there every step of the way.
4. Building Independence
Potty training fosters a sense of autonomy and accomplishment. As children master this skill, their confidence grows—making them more comfortable in other areas of preschool, from participating in group activities to making new friends.
How Parents and Preschool Can Partner for Potty Training Success
When parents and preschool staff work together, children receive consistent messaging and support. Here’s how to build that partnership:
1. Communicate Openly
Share your child’s potty training status with the preschool team. Let teachers know what methods you’re using at home, what’s working, and what challenges you’ve faced. Consistency is key.
2. Use Shared Language
Agree on the terms and routines you’ll use with your child. If you call it the "potty" at home, let us know so we can use the same language. If your child responds well to specific cues or rewards, we’ll do our best to mirror those approaches.
3. Pack Smart
Make sure your child’s preschool bag includes extra clothes, pull-ups or training underwear, wipes, and a plastic bag for soiled clothes. Being prepared ensures your child can handle accidents with dignity.
4. Celebrate Small Wins
Whether your child stayed dry all day or just told a teacher they needed to go, every step is worth celebrating. We’ll share updates with you so you can cheer them on at home too.
5. Stay Patient
Regression is normal—especially during big changes like starting school. If your child has a few setbacks, stay calm and encouraging. We’ll work together to support them back on track.
Is My Child Ready to Start Potty Training?
Readiness is more about signs than age. Here are a few indicators your child might be ready:
- Stays dry for longer periods (2+ hours)
- Shows interest in the bathroom habits of others
- Communicates the need to go or indicates discomfort with dirty diapers
- Can follow simple instructions and pull pants up/down
- Demonstrates a desire for independence
If your child is showing some of these signs and is starting preschool soon, talk with our team. We can provide feedback and tailor support to fit your child’s unique needs.
Our Approach at Storybook School Orlando
We take a compassionate, flexible approach to potty training support. Here's what you can expect:
- Developmentally Appropriate Expectations: We don’t expect every child to be fully trained before starting. Instead, we meet them where they are and help them move forward.
- Consistent Reminders: We guide children to use the bathroom at regular intervals.
- Privacy and Respect: Children are supported in a way that respects their privacy and emotional comfort.
- Encouragement Without Pressure: We offer praise and encouragement but never shame or pressure.
Every child is different, and we recognize that what works for one may not work for another. That’s why our teachers partner closely with families to create a potty training plan that works.
Tips for Starting Potty Training at Home
Here are a few ways you can prepare your child at home for potty training success at preschool:
- Introduce the Potty Early: Even before formal training begins, let your child explore the potty. Read books about it, sit on it with clothes on, and talk about what it’s for.
- Keep It Positive: Avoid turning potty time into a battleground. Offer praise, not punishment.
- Model the Behavior: Let your child observe you or older siblings (if comfortable) to understand how the process works.
- Dress for Success: Choose clothes your child can easily remove on their own. Elastic-waist pants are perfect.
- Stay Consistent: Try to follow the same routine at home and school to reinforce habits.
Potty Training and Enrollment Timing
If you're planning your child’s first preschool experience and potty training is on your mind, you’re not alone. Many families wonder whether they should wait until training is complete to enroll.
Our advice: don’t let potty training be the only factor. Children often thrive in preschool settings, and our supportive team is here to help them master this milestone. For more guidance, explore our blog on "7 Advantages of Early Childcare Enrollment", which highlights how early preschool can actually support readiness skills like potty training. And our article "What’s the Best Age to Start Childcare?" offers helpful advice on balancing developmental stages with school readiness.
Final Thoughts
Potty training is a journey, and like all important journeys, it’s easier when you’re not traveling alone. With supportive teachers, understanding caregivers, and a consistent home-school approach, children feel confident and capable.
At Storybook School Orlando, we know that potty training and preschool are important milestones—and we're proud to partner with families to make both a positive, empowering experience. Whether your child is just beginning their potty journey or already well on their way, we're here to support their success every step of the way.
Together, let’s turn one of childhood’s biggest challenges into a celebrated victory!









